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This site comprises documentation of my contact and interaction with Virginia State Police Special Agent (Anthony) Tony Gattuso -- up until the agency he's employed by forbid him to see me. Posts are in chronological order; newest additions are on the last page.

Re: Just being Honest....

from DJ Vox
to TF JADE
date Sun, Feb 28, 2010 at 9:35 PM
subject Re: Just being Honest....

On Sun, Feb 28, 2010 at 4:19 PM, TF JADE wrote:
Classic is nice.
I clean up ok....
[...]I considered the possibility that you're a reporter[...]
REPORTER! HOW INSULTING! Don't I come across as more intelligent than that?

And here I was enjoying how civil things have been and you have to be insulting... (Tongue firmly in cheek)
Kinky.
Yes but that's beyond the current bounds of conversation.

I'd type more but, I'm getting my gear together for a trip... Multihour stints on airplanes tomorrow and I'm not looking forward to it.

Don't think a lack of reply is lack of interest in our conversation... I don't know what my connectivity situation will be over the next few days.
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from TF JADE
to DJ Vox
date Sun, Feb 28, 2010 at 10:34 PM
subject Re: Just being Honest....

On Sun, Feb 28, 2010 at 9:35 PM, DJ Vox wrote:
I clean up ok....
You're really going for modest? Too cute.
REPORTER! HOW INSULTING!
Then I will be more direct: are you a member of Law Enforcement?
Don't I come across as more intelligent than that?
You do come across as intelligent. And charming. Which makes me suspicious. And intrigued.
And here I was enjoying how civil things have been and you have to beinsulting... (Tongue firmly in cheek)
Well I don't have to be insulting, but occasionally it is fun.

[...]
Don't think a lack of reply is lack of interest in our conversation...
[...]

Thanks for the heads up. Otherwise obviously I might've been devastated, just sitting here, waiting, waiting, waiting, reloading gmail again and again, asking myself why ohmigod why did he stop writing to me?!

Yeah.

Have a safe trip.
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from DJ Vox
to TF JADE
date Mon, Mar 1, 2010 at 9:47 AM
subject Re: Just being Honest....

On Sun, Feb 28, 2010 at 10:34 PM, TF JADE wrote:
You're really going for modest? Too cute.
I am modest... yet with a healthy ego at the same time. I'm a walking contradiction at times.
Then I will be more direct: are you a member of Law Enforcement?
Yes.
You do come across as intelligent. And charming. Which makes me suspicious. And intrigued.
Suspicious ??? of what? Lil' ol' me? I already told you what my motivations were... shouldn't be anything to be suspicious about. ;)

Intrigued... Hmmmm flattery will get you everywhere.
Well I don't have to be insulting, but occasionally it is fun.
I prefer calling it snarky... Insulting can be a bit mean at times.
Thanks for the heads up. Otherwise obviously I might've been devastated, just sitting here, waiting, waiting, waiting, reloading gmail again and again, asking myself why ohmigod why did he stop writing to me?!

Yeah.

Have a safe trip.
Oh I KNEW you'd react (or act) that way! ;)

Yes... modest and polite... that's me.... I stand when people approach my table when I'm out somewhere... I Hold the door and chair for ladies... I've been told I'm very old fashioned in that way. Thus the polite indication of (the possible) absence from a conversation. It's an Internet etiquette thing that I think is required....

and... you know you have been interested to see the messages coming your way when they pop up.

;)
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from TF JADE
to DJ Vox
date Mon, Mar 1, 2010 at 2:50 PM
subject Re: Just being Honest....

On Mon, Mar 1, 2010 at 9:47 AM, DJ Vox wrote:
Suspicious ??? of what? Lil' ol' me? I already told you what my motivations were... shouldn't be anything to be suspicious about. ;)
You have a healthy ego; I have a healthy suspicion. Both, I'm sure, are there for good reason.
Intrigued... Hmmmm flattery will get you everywhere.
We shall see.
I prefer calling it snarky... Insulting can be a bit mean at times.
Funny how people view even minute things so differently. I consider snarkiness unnecessary meanness. Insults are reserved for the deserving, thereby supposed to be mean.
Oh I KNEW you'd react (or act) that way! ;)
I'm the epitome of predictability, what can I say?
Yes... modest and polite... that's me.... I stand when people approach my table when I'm out somewhere... I Hold the door and chair for ladies... I've been told I'm very old fashioned in that way. Thus the polite indication of (the possible) absence from a conversation. It's an Internet etiquette thing that I think is required....
How old are you? (Psst... it's better to admit you don't want to tell me than it is to fib your age -- no doubt the polite you understands.)
and... you know you have been interested to see the messages coming your way when they pop up.
Absolutely. Nothing generates interest quite like a new toy. ;)
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from DJ Vox
to TF JADE
date Mon, Mar 1, 2010 at 3:12 PM
subject Re: Just being Honest....

Well it turns out that the dearth of Internet connectivity during my travels (so far) is not what I expected. They have wi-fi on the aircraft now and I'm just the type to take advantage of it to keep from being bored out of my skull. I do have the good sense to have reading material both on the computer and in my bag though.

On to todays items....

On Mon, Mar 1, 2010 at 2:50 PM, TF JADE wrote:
You have a healthy ego; I have a healthy suspicion. Both, I'm sure, are there for good reason.
But what is there to be suspicious of? My motives? I already stated that I was curious about what makes to tick. Truth be told... I find you very clever.
Funny how people view even minute things so differently. I consider snarkiness unnecessary meanness. Insults are reserved for the deserving, thereby supposed to be mean.
Yes... different perspectives are a part of the human condition. No one ever sees things the same way you do be it physical reality or other more esoteric things.
I'm the epitome of predictability, what can I say?
Oh I don't agree.... I just suspected based on how much of you I've read. I have that advantage over you in that I know your "voice" for lack of a better term.
How old are you? (Psst... it's better to admit you don't want to tell me than it is to fib your age -- no doubt the polite you understands.)
1963 (but well preserved)
6'1"+
Brn Brn
210
Doesn't scare small children
Absolutely. Nothing generates interest quite like a new toy. ;)
And thence to be tossed away.... back to the back of the closet once the interest has wained... oh the horror of the cast of toy.

;)
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from TF JADE
to DJ Vox
date Mon, Mar 1, 2010 at 3:38 PM
subject Re: Just being Honest....

On Mon, Mar 1, 2010 at 3:12 PM, DJ Vox wrote:
[...]
They have wi-fi on the aircraft now and I'm just the type to take advantage of it to keep from being bored out of my skull.
Smart people never get bored.

[...]
But what is there to be suspicious of? My motives? I already stated that I was curious about what makes to tick. Truth be told... I find you very clever.
You think you will figure out via email what makes me tick? Yeah lemme know how that works out for ya.
Yes... different perspectives are a part of the human condition.
One of my many goals in life is to know what other people's perspectives are going to be before they reveal them.
Oh I don't agree.... I just suspected based on how much of you I've read. I have that advantage over you in that I know your "voice" for lack of a better term.
You just keep writing; I want an even playing field.
1963 (but well preserved)
6'1"+
Brn Brn
210
Doesn't scare small children
Yum.

I don't think I've ever written it anywhere but I do say it often: perfect age for a man to be is 45 -- old enough to be established, young enough to not be old.
And thence to be tossed away.... back to the back of the closet once the interest has wained... oh the horror of the cast of toy.
[...]

Toys can be rebuilt, refurbished, regifted, reinvented, restitched, rewired, and repaired -- among other things. There is simply no excuse for tossing one away.
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from DJ Vox
to TF JADE
date Mon, Mar 1, 2010 at 4:03 PM
subject Re: Just being Honest....

On Mon, Mar 1, 2010 at 2:38 PM, TF JADE wrote:
Smart people never get bored.
Exactly... That's why I'm always prepared. Either that, or I know how to make my own fun. (hmmm... there's a bad joke in there what with me being male and all.....)
You think you will figure out via email what makes me tick? Yeah lemme know how that works out for ya.
Well it depends on which gears I'm talking about. If it's just your interest in JADE or why and how you are motivated, then it's very possible. The only way into someones mind is via their words. Spoken is better for some communications (there is so much information in body language and the nuance of speech etc) but the written word also holds it's share of information, both intended and not.

Perfect example, I recently reconnected with a high school friend and, although I knew she was smart, it was nice to see that she could hold her own with the written word. It would have been depressing if she were one of these, "how r u" types. (Not that my grammar and punctuation are perfect, but I do try.)
You just keep writing; I want an even playing field.
Gleaning anything from my writing?
1963 (but well preserved)
6'1"+
Brn Brn
210
Doesn't scare small children

Yum.
You do have your tastes (and appitites), don't you.
I don't think I've ever written it anywhere but I do say it often: perfect age for a man to be is 45 -- old enough to be established, young enough to not be old.
I've heard it as, "Old enough to know how, still young enough to get it done."
Toys can be rebuilt, refurbished, re gifted, reinvented, restitched, rewired, and repaired -- among other things. There is simply no excuse for tossing one away.
Re-gifted.... Funny.... I've always said....I wouldn't mind being shared.