I have greatly missed our usual interaction today...

from TF JADE
to DJ Vox
date Wed, Jul 21, 2010 at 8:25 PM
subject I have greatly missed our usual interaction today...

Are you settled here for a while?
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from DJ Vox
to TF JADE
date Wed, Jul 21, 2010 at 8:26 PM
subject Re: I have greatly missed our usual interaction today...

I did too... I'm here for a bit.... :)
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from TF JADE
to DJ Vox
date Wed, Jul 21, 2010 at 8:27 PM
subject Re: I have greatly missed our usual interaction today...

Do you want to talk about your bad day?
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from DJ Vox
to TF JADE
date Wed, Jul 21, 2010 at 8:30 PM
subject Re: I have greatly missed our usual interaction today...

Mine was just having another monday..... And then a minor blow up here...

tell me about yours.
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from TF JADE
to DJ Vox
date Wed, Jul 21, 2010 at 8:41 PM
subject Re: I have greatly missed our usual interaction today...

Apparently my sweet CPD guy ain't so sweet. Think I'm gonna have a bad bruise. :(

Albemarle County gave me nothing but nasty attitude; had to involve my lawyer and a judge, and still the clerks gave me grief.

A Trooper clocked me doing 82 in a 60, with no seat belt, on a suspended license. His exact words for letting me go sans citations were "I ran out of tickets." ! ! ! ! ! I told him he was Awesome.

I wanted to speak to you and give my brain a workout so I tried to hunt you down at your job. My tried-and-true tactics were less than stellar -- although I did get your number and talk to your Lieutenant.
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from DJ Vox
to TF JADE
date Wed, Jul 21, 2010 at 8:44 PM
subject Re: I have greatly missed our usual interaction today...

On Wed, Jul 21, 2010 at 8:41 PM, TF JADE wrote:

Apparently my sweet CPD guy ain't so sweet. Think I'm gonna have a bad bruise. :(

HE HIT YOU!!!!????
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from TF JADE
to DJ Vox
date Wed, Jul 21, 2010 at 8:45 PM
subject Re: I have greatly missed our usual interaction today...

What did your Lieutenant -- I hate the way that's spelled -- email? Will you forward me a copy? Please, please please please please?
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from DJ Vox
to TF JADE
date Wed, Jul 21, 2010 at 8:46 PM
subject Re: I have greatly missed our usual interaction today...

Answer my question first please.. I'm sitting here stewing.
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from TF JADE
to DJ Vox
date Wed, Jul 21, 2010 at 8:52 PM
subject Re: I have greatly missed our usual interaction today...

Please, please please please please?
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from DJ Vox
to TF JADE
date Wed, Jul 21, 2010 at 8:53 PM
subject Re: I have greatly missed our usual interaction today...

You cannot tell me something about a bruise and not explain it... to someone who cares about you that is just plain cruel and I don't see how YOU could be cruel.
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from TF JADE
to DJ Vox
date Wed, Jul 21, 2010 at 9:00 PM
subject Re: I have greatly missed our usual interaction today...

I mentioned it because it was part of my day, which you asked about. I did not think you would make anything more out of it than anything else I wrote. If there's going to be evidence of the injury come Monday, then you don't have to see me. I'll understand.
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from DJ Vox
to TF JADE
date Wed, Jul 21, 2010 at 9:04 PM
subject Re: I have greatly missed our usual interaction today...

Ok... I'll forget it then.

LT said..."she" would not identify the case and that I should "use caution" if I spoke to her.
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from TF JADE
to DJ Vox
date Wed, Jul 21, 2010 at 9:08 PM
subject Re: I have greatly missed our usual interaction today...

You won't forward it to me?! I answered your question! Do I have to give you details to get a copy of the actual email?
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from DJ Vox
to TF JADE
date Wed, Jul 21, 2010 at 9:12 PM
subject Re: I have greatly missed our usual interaction today...

I told you what it said... I don't think you understand what I'm dealing with in this man. He'd jump at the chance to jam something up my ass and while I trust you, what happens if those words in that order get found outside due to things beyond your control.... the only place they could have come from is me. You have to understand the problem... I can't take that chance.
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from DJ Vox
to TF JADE
date Wed, Jul 21, 2010 at 9:14 PM
subject Re: I have greatly missed our usual interaction today...

Bad enough now I don't know what I'm going to tell him when he asks about it.

I know you don't believe it but we get FIRED for lying. Granted we have plenty of shit heads that get away with a lot fo crap, but I'm a boy scout... I'd be one of the ones that gets hosed.
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from DJ Vox
to TF JADE
date Wed, Jul 21, 2010 at 9:16 PM
subject Re: I have greatly missed our usual interaction today...

I don't want to sound like a whiny bitch but it's been a shitty day...

You are getting knocked around by some jack ass....

I have problems at work and at home....

etc...

I'm sorry.
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from TF JADE
to DJ Vox
date Wed, Jul 21, 2010 at 9:25 PM
subject Re: I have greatly missed our usual interaction

On Wed, Jul 21, 2010 at 9:12 PM, DJ Vox wrote:

I told you what it said... I don't think you understand what I'm dealing with in this man. He'd jump at the chance to jam something up my ass and while I trust you, what happens if those words in that order get found outside due to things beyond your control.... the only place they could have come from is me. You have to understand the problem... I can't take that chance.

But it's not some top secret junk -- it involves me! You wouldn't even have gotten it if it weren't for me!

On Wed, Jul 21, 2010 at 9:14 PM, DJ Vox wrote:

Bad enough now I don't know what I'm going to tell him when he asks about it.

You don't even know what I said to him. I even made him laugh a few times. Why do you immediately think it's bad because of my part in it? If you knew how it played out, you'd know it's nothing for you to worry about.

I know you don't believe it but we get FIRED for lying. Granted we have plenty of shit heads that get away with a lot fo crap, but I'm a boy scout... I'd be one of the ones that gets hosed.

I have a perfectly reasonable solution for what you could've told him but apparently you aren't willing to think good enough of me to accept it.

Look, I got yanked out of my car by my hair and whacked upside the face. You don't see me taking it out on you. I know you aren't glad at home. I'm sorry you've had a bad day. Really, really, I am. I missed you today. I just wanted to speak to you, to feel better. Now I feel worse than ever. What can I say to make you happy?
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from DJ Vox
to TF JADE
date Wed, Jul 21, 2010 at 9:29 PM
subject Re: I have greatly missed our usual interaction today...

I'm fine... just very upset that you got hurt...

I'm sorry i'm not taking it well...

Let me settle out a little
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from DJ Vox
to TF JADE
date Wed, Jul 21, 2010 at 9:51 PM
subject Re: I have greatly missed our usual interaction today...

I'll show it to you on monday.. how's that?
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from TF JADE
to DJ Vox
date Wed, Jul 21, 2010 at 9:53 PM
subject Re: I have greatly missed our usual interaction today...

On Wed, Jul 21, 2010 at 9:51 PM, DJ Vox wrote:

I'll show it to you on monday.. how's that?

You still want to see me on Monday?
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from DJ Vox
to TF JADE
date Wed, Jul 21, 2010 at 9:54 PM
subject Re: I have greatly missed our usual interaction today...

Yes I do... I need to give you your books and whatever other goodies I can scare up.

Can I Get That In Writing?

When we met on July 26, 2010, in, I believe, Crewe, VA, “Gattuso, Anthony, SA,” true to his word, brought me a copy of the email sent to him by “Beckner, David M., Lt.”

I assumed it was the real deal, too, since I had not antecedently provided Tony any of the specifics of my conversation with his Lieutenant.

When I’d called the Virginia State Police that previous Wednesday looking for my own luscious State Policeman, lest anyone I spoke with might recognize me as the I HeArTE JADE blogger, I’d used my maiden name.

In the message he’d given Tony, Dave Beckner, whom I’d talked to for about 10 minutes, got my surname correct -- although he’d inexplicably goofed on my first name. Other than that, the details he’d passed along to Tony were correct; I had, in fact, identified myself as an “independent journalist” seeking info on a case I offered no particulars about.

I giggled audibly upon reading the part he wrote about “evasiveness.” My, but these guys are comical! Lt. Beckner had been nothing less than friendly and polite with me -- and I to him also -- but I guess, to a lawman, even the teeniest prevarication automatically justifies a high level of suspicion. Oh well.

As for the remainder of that particular Monday with my lover, more on it, and the additional tangibles he put in my hands, later.

Re: I have greatly missed our usual interaction today...

from DJ Vox
to TF JADE
date Wed, Jul 21, 2010 at 10:00 PM
subject Re: I have greatly missed our usual interaction today...

go look at your logs see if you see any thing odd
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from TF JADE
to DJ Vox
date Wed, Jul 21, 2010 at 10:00 PM
subject Re: I have greatly missed our usual interaction today...

On Wed, Jul 21, 2010 at 9:54 PM, DJ Vox wrote:

Yes I do... I need to give you your books and whatever other goodies I can scare up.

Okay.

P.S. All you have to do is ring me up once, maybe twice, from work then tell your Lieutenant the truth: "She never answered."
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from TF JADE
to DJ Vox
date Wed, Jul 21, 2010 at 10:00 PM
subject Re: I have greatly missed our usual interaction today...

On Wed, Jul 21, 2010 at 10:00 PM, DJ Vox wrote:

go look at your logs see if you see any thing odd

Such as...?
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from DJ Vox
to TF JADE
date Wed, Jul 21, 2010 at 10:02 PM
subject Re: I have greatly missed our usual interaction today...

On Wed, Jul 21, 2010 at 10:00 PM, TF JADE wrote:

P.S. All you have to do is ring me up once, maybe twice, from work then tell your Lieutenant the truth: "She never answered."

that is the path I was considering...
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from DJ Vox
to TF JADE
date Wed, Jul 21, 2010 at 10:03 PM
subject Re: I have greatly missed our usual interaction today...

On Wed, Jul 21, 2010 at 10:00 PM, TF JADE wrote:

Such as...?

incoming connection to the blog from a totally off the wall place...
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from TF JADE
to DJ Vox
date Wed, Jul 21, 2010 at 10:08 PM
subject Re: I have greatly missed our usual interaction today...

If only you knew how many off the wall places connect to my blog. Hahaha...

Today included everything from Brazil and Slovakia to Rockingham Memorial Hospital and County of Henrico Government.
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from DJ Vox
to TF JADE
date Wed, Jul 21, 2010 at 10:09 PM
subject Re: I have greatly missed our usual interaction today...

Ok I'm going to talk to the search box then...
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from TF JADE
to DJ Vox
date Wed, Jul 21, 2010 at 10:09 PM
subject Re: I have greatly missed our usual interaction today...

I also noted that Jason Trent stopped by the site.
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from TF JADE
to DJ Vox
date Wed, Jul 21, 2010 at 10:16 PM
subject Re: I have greatly missed our usual interaction today...

You're using the fscked.org
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from DJ Vox
to TF JADE
date Wed, Jul 21, 2010 at 10:18 PM
subject Re: I have greatly missed our usual interaction today...

Nope.. But now I need to look at what that site is doing that's similar.
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from TF JADE
to DJ Vox
date Wed, Jul 21, 2010 at 10:19 PM
subject Re: I have greatly missed our usual interaction today...

What are you up to? And why are you doing it with my site?
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from DJ Vox
to TF JADE
date Wed, Jul 21, 2010 at 10:20 PM
subject Re: I have greatly missed our usual interaction today...

Just wondered if you knew about such stuff and it amazes me that trent and others don't.
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from DJ Vox
to TF JADE
date Wed, Jul 21, 2010 at 10:20 PM
subject Re: I have greatly missed our usual interaction today...

On Wed, Jul 21, 2010 at 10:19 PM, TF JADE wrote:

What are you up to? And why are you doing it with my site?

Demonstrating hiding.... just to see how it works.
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from TF JADE
to DJ Vox
date Wed, Jul 21, 2010 at 10:21 PM
subject Re: I have greatly missed our usual interaction today...

On Wed, Jul 21, 2010 at 10:20 PM, DJ Vox wrote:

Just wondered if you knew about such stuff and it amazes me that trent and others don't.

They, more than likely, don't care if I know they read my site.

Demonstrating hiding.... just to see how it works.

Are you using a manual proxy configuration or a web-based anonymizer?
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from DJ Vox
to TF JADE
date Wed, Jul 21, 2010 at 10:22 PM
subject Re: I have greatly missed our usual interaction today...

Could be... anyway it's an intellectual exercise for me.

tor router:

http://www.torproject.org
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from TF JADE
to DJ Vox
date Wed, Jul 21, 2010 at 10:25 PM
subject Re: I have greatly missed our usual interaction today...

Oh. Those do work to thwart stupid people, but, with a little patience, someone smart can still figure out who you are. ;)
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from DJ Vox
to TF JADE
date Wed, Jul 21, 2010 at 10:27 PM
subject Re: I have greatly missed our usual interaction today...

Oh I know that But I'm mostly thinking of the monitors at work....
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from TF JADE
to DJ Vox
date Wed, Jul 21, 2010 at 10:28 PM
subject Re: I have greatly missed our usual interaction today...

On Wed, Jul 21, 2010 at 10:27 PM, DJ Vox wrote:

Oh I know that But I'm mostly thinking of the monitors at work....

What do you mean? You don't want your work to know you look at my site?

I can block you from visiting too, you know. I have a list of roughly 2000 proxy and tor servers already. ;)
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from DJ Vox
to TF JADE
date Wed, Jul 21, 2010 at 10:30 PM
subject Re: I have greatly missed our usual interaction today...

No, I don't want work watching some sites I may want to watch while at work....
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from TF JADE
to DJ Vox
date Wed, Jul 21, 2010 at 10:32 PM
subject Re: I have greatly missed our usual interaction today...

Like what? Better yet, why did you not seem concerned with that prior to tracking junk related to I HeArTE JADE?
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from DJ Vox
to TF JADE
date Wed, Jul 21, 2010 at 10:34 PM
subject Re: I have greatly missed our usual interaction today...

I have gmail running all day.. I don't want any static etc....

What prior?
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from TF JADE
to DJ Vox
date Wed, Jul 21, 2010 at 10:39 PM
subject Re: I have greatly missed our usual interaction today...

Why would it matter to them if you actively use Gmail?

Never mind. I was already mildly-sensitive-suspicious today, then you went and made me ultra-sensitive-suspicious. I think my trust (what little there was) is back in the garbage can -- likely where it belongs.
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from DJ Vox
to TF JADE
date Wed, Jul 21, 2010 at 10:42 PM
subject Re: I have greatly missed our usual interaction today...

No you shouldn't feel that way about trust. I'm still me.....

I just think you are smart enough to help me with my explorations and on the off chance you didn't know about such things, it was hopefully more info...

Do you still want monday?

I don't think they'd care about gmail... I just don't want any questions about net use at all
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from TF JADE
to DJ Vox
date Wed, Jul 21, 2010 at 10:59 PM
subject Re: I have greatly missed our usual interaction today...

I'm scared to say anything to you now.

Good night.
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from DJ Vox
to TF JADE
date Wed, Jul 21, 2010 at 11:02 PM
subject Re: I have greatly missed our usual interaction today...

Gotta go... I'm sorry I was in a shitty mood to start with and only got worse.

talk to you tomorrow...

Don't be afriad of me...we are just both having shitty days..... we shouldn't take it out on each other.